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Well guys I'm in a foul mood and at 6am, I don't have anyone else to vent to. Sorry, it's you forum! I'm going through a rough time in my life with someone I care deeply for who. This person felt they needed a break because they felt that I wasn't making them a priority in my life. Never once did they mention this to me until they had already made up their mind on the whole situation. I strongly dislike (I won't use the word hate here) people that cannot communicate their feelings in a relationship. Especially when they finally do and still cannot truly give you an explanation as for their reasoning. I'm a big boy. I can take the truth. I don't like bull**** or playing games with people that this stage of my life. If I want to do that, I play FL! [END=RANT] :eek:

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Sorry to hear man. They can be self-absorbed b!tches sometimes' date=' so I know what you mean. I care for someone that doesn't feel the same way for me. Life's a bitch :)[/quote']

I'm now in that situation, while previously it was the other way around. She was really into me and I wasn't giving enough attention. Irony is a bitch too. :mad:

On a side note, Erana will be happy. You can expect to see a lot more of Grum.

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I understand that situation completely. Girls require a lot of like... emotional maintenance or else they get all weird and do **** like that. You're a devastatingly attractive man and I'm sure she will come running right back. And if she doesn't' date=' I might.[/quote']

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

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My father-in-law set me up pretty well as far as traditional family structure goes. But he still drops 'hints' to the both of us every now and then. Mostly in the form of some story. Subtle, but we get what he is trying to do.

One big one early on that he gave was to maintain a sense of drama in her life. I don't like drama, I want easy, smooth sailing. But I took what he said to heart and it has paid off big time.

The second was to tell her WHY I love her. And no, "I love you because you have big t**s, or a nice a**" doesn't count. I tried. However, telling her I love her because she is very thoughtful, a wonderful mother, and supportive wife somewhere in the middle of the day earns me a crap load of brownie points.

Sorry to hear about your situation Mindflayer. You may want to consider moving though if Grim knows your current address. Or hire HBWillie to hide outside, set traps, and blackjack him if he shows up.

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Keeping a hot girl interested in you is one of the hardest things in life, because the problem with a hot girl is that they usually get almost everything they want and they are used to getting all the attention. I could tell from fb that your girl was hot, so either forget about the attention-freak (and decide what to do when she comes crawling back to you, which I bet she will at some point) or suck it up and learn to read her emotions right. Girls love it when you understand what she's feeling without having to ask about it. Just don't let her get to your head, and don't call her begging her to come back. Be a man :)

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LOL @ Bert hahahahaha.

Yeah the first one is probably not that good an option.

I think that in a longer relationship things you both like or have in common are what usually makes you stay together, seeing as the other one knows without having to be told what you think / feel about certain things.

Early on, things can be rougher as you get to know the other person. Sometimes it also turns out that it is just not fitting and then it is probably best to let go and try again with someone else.

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First, I'm proud of the forum for being supportive and unlike people on every other internet website out there don't just kick people when they're down.

Second, sorry to tell you this but I think she's just making up a reason to get out of the relationship. Maybe she'll change her mind, only time will tell but don't sit around pining for her. The good news is, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. When two people break up the first reaction is to think of what's wrong with them or you, fact is you two maybe just weren't meant for each other. Don't allow your ego or pride to become involved, it has no reflection on you as a person unless you were a total jerk, i.e. name calling and whatnot. Also when it comes to hot chicks I know one thing, there's always like ONE guy who just is like their kryptonite, who they're like a moth to the flame for. YOU are not that guy for her, but you very well could be for some other chick, go find her. Hope this helped in some way, shape or form.

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Women are a pain in the arse. Period. But I like you so much I'm going to let you in on a little secret.

IT GETS WORSE!

It never ever ever ever ever gets easier. Married men live longer so they can suffer the fiery hell that even Satan himself couldn't conjure.

You, my friend, are lucky. You haven't committed. You can do whatever you want, including taking her back at the end of the day to re-enter that Gilded Cage of Love. Then again, if you don't want Grim, I'll happily take his place. Love those sorority boy looks you have. ;)

And it sounds to me like she's having some kind of doubts for some reason and it's her own mind that's suffocating her. Or maybe her biological clock is ticking. Obviously she means a lot to you if you came to the forums to vent. I don't ever remember you posting such a glimpse into any negativity in your personal life like this. That's more my forte.

At times like this I used to go for a couple roses (never could afford a good dozen from a florist....always go to a florist) and write a good old fashioned love poem. Deliver 'em in person. Corny as hell, but, hey, it's got that personal touch. Ask Grim. Touching is good.

It's almost 1 a.m. Better take some notes for that economic exam. Go get her, Tiger. :)

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I'm in no way qualified to give relationship advice. Normally I'm the one running for the hills when things get too deep for me.

However, I'm pulling for ya. Hope it gets better soon. And if not, let me know where you live, I know good strip joints just about anywhere.

Strip joints are a waste of money. I'll get him some nubile 18 year old red-head from my college. :D

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If she cannot communicate, you don't want her anyway. Move on.

I struggle with that too, but it's the cold truth. Why waste your time going after or hurting over someone that you've already realized has a major flaw? I was with someone for 2 years and at the end of it, looking back it was like...

We were happily together for about 6 months then spent the next 18 months trying to break up. You don't want your life to be like that.

Go out, have fun. Have as much wild and random sex as you can, live and love life. Sooner or later you will meet someone you want to settle down with and everything will just work itself out.

Until then, it's a free for all.

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If she's not playing ball when you've made your intentions to rectify things clear, why persist? Let HER know that YOU'RE not going to waste YOUR precious time if she's not also going to approach things in a mature way that will resolve the issue, and let her know SHE can contact YOU if she wants to make an attempt at making things work. She'll either contact you, and you can show how you'll resolve the situation, or she won't, and you've exited the relationship with pride intact, safe in the knowledge that it wasn't going to work anyway if she wasn't that bothered.

Please note that the above is not intended as me trying to provide any 'expert advice' on how I think women work (as I'm no expert :D), it's just my own view on approaching this sort of situation. I have no times for games either. I'm a loving, caring boyfriend but I am nobody's bitch or walkover - don't take it to think I'm some arrogant prick who just goes around manipulating women. Yes, I know people will say you can't have that carefree, throw-away attitude in a relationship or marriage that has spanned some years - that's not what I'm saying.

I'd advise against taking any relationship advice from an online forum at risk of destroying something that is precious to you.

Why we're giving Mind "Party boy" flayer relationship advice I don't know. With that chiseled jawline, he has everything he needs. ;)

Dey

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