Smooth Lines

[ladyoki]

Yup I read it, and it is true that I did not like him at first.

From a girl point, be yourself and be honest, it’s a good start. Make her laugh.

[elfdude]

I can't believe I forgot this one... It's not a line, but always makes 'em smile. If you have a pez dispenser, carry it around in a cargo pocket or something, and if she catches your eye, or you catch her looking at you, walk up to her, pull out the dispenser and simply say, "Pez?" Perfect ice breaker.

Also, the slightly more strange. Walk up and say "Giant Polar Bear." they go "huh?" the you say "It broke the ice."

a-g

dude a-g you totally stole my line! and it gos like this,

"hey, excuse me" "yes" "you wouldn't happen to know how much a polar bear weighs, do you?" "uhh, no I don't" "just enough to break the ice, hi my names ken"

that line gets me everywhere. lines don't work though, unless your a sexy beast that is.

[Deykari]

"So, do you come here often?"

Dey

[-red-]

Lot of good advice here.

And a LOT of bad advice.

A-G seems to know what he's tlaking about, especially with the 3 second rule. In fact, I think A-G's been reading from the same source I have

Lemme give you some pointers of my own.. sort of a compilation of what I like and have used from here.

First, SEVEN percent of all human interactions are verbal, that means NINETY-THREE PERCENT of communication doesn't come out of your mouth. Body langugae is HUGE - lean back, not foreward; look her inthe eyes, but don't be creepy about it; wide body language, legs apart and arms a little spread (ever see Tom Cruise in Top Gun?); don't tap your feet or fingers; shoulders back, head straight, and amillion other tiny things.

1.)3 Second Rule - you see her, you go in. This serves two purposes. One, you don't brain **** yourself in to submission. Two, you don't 'stale out' and seem weird to be the guy just standing around. No questions, just do it.

2.)Approach - You're gunna want a stock line or SOMETHING to break the ice. There are some great ones that aren't used very often. you know magic? Go up there with your best magic trick and say "You believe in magic?" and bust the trick before she can answer. Come up with some cologne on each wrist and say "Hey, I need a female opinion. I can only stay for a moment, or I'll be late for class. But which one of these do you think smells better?"

3.)In bold is the False Time Constraint (FTC) - These are gold. Often times people will walk up and break the ice without putting up a FTC. Women will become uncomfortable because they don't know how long your planning to stick around. This drops their guard enough to have a better chance at conversation.

That takes care of the approach. Whatever opener you use, make sure you have a story or some conversation ready. A story that demonstatres social proof (WC reads from my sources also ) or demonstrated higher value are terrific. Now I say demonstrated higher value, not demonstrated that your a giant prick. Read below.

"Really? You like this one? That's interesting, because my former girlfriend said she liked it to, but not for the reason you might think. In the modeling profession this particular scent has a direct effect on the person who smells it. Its like a mix of pheremones and acid on a small scale effect. It enhances the senses and attraction. So when she'd walk down the runway she'd always wear this particular scent."

Several tihngs happen there. One, your demonstrating social proof in that you've had at LEASTo ne girlfriend (your 'pre-approved') who was a model (therefor very attractive). Your demonstrating class and intelligence by asking about cologne. Your showing confidence in asking a female opinion. Your using suble neuro-linguistics (complicated to go in to, but scent is a VERY strong sense, and by anchoring the ideas of attraction to this particular smell, the more she smells it the more attracted she'll become)

After that, you should be able to rap for a while. Be CALM and cool. Lean back and give her space. Above all BE DIFFERENT IN AN INTERESTING WAY. Beutiful women are approached hundreds of times a week by the same sorry chumps using tired lines and sweet talk. Your the exception to the rule. TEASE her, women LOVE that ****, trust me.

I can go in to insults and proof theory but that's too much.

After a while, get up to leave - YOU finish the interaction first. This whole thing should last no more than ten minutes. As an after thought, before leaving, turn and say 'Hey, I'm gunna go to this thing and meet some friends, but I got an extra ticket. You wanna come along?' If you've done your job building attraction, she'll say yes.

I'm going to provide you with something that WILL HELP with women, and will possible brand me a loser to a lot of you. But its feild tested, and works like a charm.

http://www.mysterymethod.com/forum/

There's priceless info here, and its free. Social interactions are a science, and can be learned and manipulated.

DO NOT try to absorb all of this and intellectualize it. Get the basic ideas, go to the girl, and jump in head first.

Its been said a hundred million times before. She's one girl in a world where the majority or women (51% of the world population, I think?) and there are many more where she came from. Don't freak yourself out.

This has turned in to a massive lecture - I could write a thesis on this **** - so I'll leave you with a final thought...

...you can't get the results you want if you don't go over and say hello.

Good luck man.

[Malchaeius]

"Nice shoes..."

[elfdude]

This thread is fuuuuuuny. First of all lying about exs can never turn out good, theres just no reason to do it. Honestly dude, not knocking you, but if your worrying about whether a girl thinks your pre-approved, then you shouldn't be giving out advice. If you really want to pick up the really smoking hot chicks, you have to look good, be self confident and you gotta be the life of the party. If your not out there getting attention, then your not going to get that 8 9 10s attention. Believe me I know this. Dude was right about cologne though, don't smell like a basement kid.

[-red-]

Its not lying, its flirting

[Deykari]

Lot of good advice here.

And a LOT of bad advice.

A-G seems to know what he's tlaking about, especially with the 3 second rule. In fact, I think A-G's been reading from the same source I have

And you've been reading from the same source I have.

A world full of neg and proof theory, chick crack and time bridging.

It would almost make me feel a little nerdy, if it didn't work so effectively (or at least in my case, sometimes, I wouldn't call myself an expert...)

As for the lying about your exs? "Fake it 'till you make it." You fake it, you get with incredibly hot girl. Something happens. Next time, with another girl, you're not faking it because you have a real-life story to fall back on. And it gives you social proof. There is a little more to it than just that, Elfdude, and it's not exactly about worrying about lying to impress. It's merely another method. You don't even have to be speaking about ex's and you don't have to be lying. It's just something that gives you social proof. You shouldn't have to lie really though. I have a couple of stories that have happened to me that don't directly involve girls or anything, but still DHV.

Dey

[Baby Hippo]

"Nice shoes..."

wanna ****.

I know that pick up line! (doesn't work)

[elfdude]

yea dude, its nice pants wanna ****

[Teralis]

A-G seems to know what he's tlaking about, especially with the 3 second rule. In fact, I think A-G's been reading from the same source I have

Good luck man.

Whatcha reading "How to talk to girls for dummies":D

[WarriorCleric]

I thought it was 'Nice cellulite...'

Anyway, that 'source' you shared, Red, is just a compiled list of experiences people have had and ideas that men have been sharing with each other for a long time. So if by source you mean you've been hanging with my friends, and been having the same experience, then sure, we've had the same source. Though that forum seems to have some good ideas, but also a few that seem a bit to... not.

Infact, even though you didn't say it, imply it or anything, the thought that I am a 'pick up artist' or whatever those people call their heros, or that I aspire to be one, is very insulting. I never present myself falsly, or mislead anyone I approach(not intentionally anyway)

WC

[Mmm Coffee]

And here I was wondering why "I'll show you mine if you show me your's" hasn't worked since 2nd grade!