EyeSeeU Posted July 12, 2006 Report Share Posted July 12, 2006 hopefully for your sake she isn't gettin freaky with some dudes... Thats why I don't think I could ever do a LD relationship where I atleast cant see the person a few times a month. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magick Posted July 12, 2006 Report Share Posted July 12, 2006 Funny thing, trust. And from reading today's email, she just dropped £700 (instead of £300 if she'd reserved 2 weeks ago) to visit for a week starting the 27th of next month. I'm happy (except the price for procrastination). Let that be a lesson to you all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fiere Posted July 12, 2006 Report Share Posted July 12, 2006 I came real close to getting married at the end of last year/beginning of this years. Was gonna propose, looking for rings, the works. Then, while I'm up hear at college, we'd call a couple times a week, then poof! No more calls. Missed V-day. Haven't heard from her since. Long distance is hard anyway, but that...sucked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elfdude Posted July 12, 2006 Report Share Posted July 12, 2006 Yep, you gotta trust a girl reaaaaal well to do anything like that. And I don't trust anyone, let alone someone that bleeds for a week without dying. Yay for cliches! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brsingr Posted July 13, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 Yep, you gotta trust a girl reaaaaal well to do anything like that. And I don't trust anyone, let alone someone that bleeds for a week without dying. Yay for cliches! trust a girl to have a long distance relationship? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zrothum Posted July 13, 2006 Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 ........half of me wants to laugh and think he doesn't get it.... the other half of me just wants to laugh........ ROFLCOPTER Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
npc_death Posted July 13, 2006 Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 Listen, this problem isn't really even a problem. Any brother who says you can't date his sister doesn't really respect you as a friend. Otherwise, he'd want you to date her as to keep the creeps away. Leash? Ridiculous. Elfdude's my homie, but he's terrible when it comes to women. No relationship is worth anything if there isn't a mutual trust. Are you needy because you talk to someone you like everyday? No. I talk to my girlfriend everyday. Back when she wasn't my girlfriend, I'd make sure to talk to her everyday. It's part of the courting process. If you think she has feelings for you, you might want to try an endearing comment after not speaking to her for a day or so like "missed talking to you yesterday." She'll smile or be grossed out depending on whether or not she likes you. 7 minute bike ride? Get a car. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brsingr Posted July 13, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 one, i'm 14, and have a car, but can't drive it, and two, he wont let me date his sister because he knows me, and thinks i want to... you know, do stuff... with her, and that I will act on that want. he is right about the fact that I want to, but wrong about the opinion that I will act on it. he's wrong for three reasons - 1. I respect her too much 2. I dont want to ruin her, or my, life. 3. I cant afford a kid. My mom might stab me in the eye if she finds out that I got some girl pregnant. wait, did I say might? I meant WILL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
npc_death Posted July 13, 2006 Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 Well, I had my suspicions about your being 14 or 15. Not that I'm too much wiser, what I said will make more sense in a few years when you've already forgotten it. Also, and please take this is true, sex does not = a relationship. And I would highly reccommend staying away from it as long as possible. I lost my viriginity at 18 and could've waited longer. No rush, brother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brsingr Posted July 13, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 I know, I'm definately in no rush. make that four reasons. I plan to stay a virgin until I marry. And I told you I was 14 on AIM. Guess you forgot that was me? by the way, I dont even know who elfdude was referring to when he mentioned the leash. My girl friend, or my wanna be girlfriend, my best friends sister. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
npc_death Posted July 13, 2006 Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 bonk self I did forget. Too much **** going on. Man, 14-17 are the best years. At no other time will romance seem as important and awkwardness be so harsh. Enjoy it, Brother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brsingr Posted July 13, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 God, there was this one girl I was ****ing in love with. I tried for 4 years, got a few friend dates and kisses on the cheek, but she didn't like me that way. This dude named sam (he's my friend now.) went out with her, and kept on taunting me. I played it off, but I was hurt. (sam - "I got some booty!" me - "I'm very happy for you, but shut the **** up about it.") not that I liked her more than my friends sister... I've been trying with her for 2 years so far. (as long as I've known her.) It's because of her brother, she likes me. I guess I've been trying with her brother. (dont think like that!) I will eventually prove to him that I am trustworthy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
npc_death Posted July 13, 2006 Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 I find it ridiculous that there are 14-year-old kids who are getting booty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zrothum Posted July 13, 2006 Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 man i wish i could have gotten laid @ 14 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zrothum Posted July 13, 2006 Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 im 21 and I still wish I could get some booty! hahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brsingr Posted July 13, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 he wasn't doing her! (although I know for a fact that he asked her twice, and once for oral AFTER THEY BROKE UP!! I also know she said no.) She was only going out with him cuz every once in a while she starts feeling desperate and goes out with some random dude. And It was that despearteness that led her to let him grab her @ss and hold on, which led to the saying "I got some booty" EDIT: and he had just turned twelve at the time, so it's twelve year olds getting booty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brsingr Posted July 13, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 Npc_death, you're not cookoo for coco puffs, you're insane for cocaine. GTG for 2nite. peace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Warpnow Posted July 13, 2006 Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 Heh, you guys are old. Kids are starting to have sex in 8th and 9th grade pretty routinely now. Yea, its pretty sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fiere Posted July 13, 2006 Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 I must be old then too. Freak. I didn't even like girls until like sixth grade or middle school, and then I was still way too scared to talk to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WarriorCleric Posted July 13, 2006 Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 Stay away from friend's sisters. I made this mistake and it ended badly. Worse over my friend is my roommate aswell. Everything was awesome, for three months, then it got a little odd for a while, then it got bad, then it ended and now my living conditions suck. Don't **** where you eat, remember that. This girl seemed perfect, she was a bit geekish like I, we both enjoyed martial arts(different styles, but some common ground), reading science fiction, watching the same tv shows and doing the same exercise, she was always polite, curtious, all that jazz, and all of our friends 'approved' of the relationship. Anyways, the relationship ended badly, she was a lieing, misleading, cheating whore, who skrewed around with many of my friends, and some of which who are friend of my roommate aswell, where in lies more problems. I'm leased in with this dick for another year, can't get out, we've tried. So now my roommate tries to go out of his way to make me upset, saying things and what not, but we all know I'm a fairly decent ***, so it usually ends up with him getting more upset, but it is scathing, a lot of the things he says, not how he intended but in that it really hurts having to deal with this sitituation now. I had been friends with this guy for a few years, and it was a great friendship, we went on trips together, my roommate and I, we spent tons of time together just chillin, he was a great friend. I was friends with quite a few of the other people involved and they were great friends for their part aswell, and now it's over because this girl, who seemed perfect wasn't. I didn't do anything wrong in the relationship, except start it, but I certainly got punished for how things ended. Worse over, all of the mutal frends get punished for it aswell, the good ones won't play sides, but it's got to be horribly uncomfortable for them, and eventually 'sides' will be taken. Some won't be hanging around with you much anymore, but still be chillin with the other friends. They won't have problems with you, but just won't be chatting with you anymore. That's probably one of the worst parts I guess, the finding of how you rate as a friend, and seeing it be bellow a bunch of pricks. Well, I guess it all sucks, and sucks pretty horribly. Best bet, especially at our age, just pass on the friend's sister, it's not worth it. And if it would work out, you can work it out a few years from now anyway. Waiting isn't bad in this situtation, wait a long time. WC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brsingr Posted July 13, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 a few years is.. what? two, three? By the way, none of my friends even know this girl, excluding my best friend. (her brother). They are all at killeen high, and she is at KAJA, A private school I went to the year before last. so, WC, I am sure that your situation will not happen to me. she is 13, one year younger than me, and I know she hasn't gone out with anybody in the last 3 years. for a fact. Thereby making her NOT "a lying, misleading, cheating whore" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grim_Reefer Posted July 13, 2006 Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 Bitches ain't **** but hos and tricks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lethereal Posted July 13, 2006 Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 So, does anyone know where I can find a chastity belt for my five month old? I don't want her picking up any guys when she hits pre-K... You know, I wasn't worried so much about her getting older until I read this site and now I'm thinking, "12?! Having sex at 14 or even 12?! WTF?!" Maybe at 26 I'm older than dirt to most of you, but my goodness! It just seems VERY young to me to be so concerned with sex. When I was in high school, girls who put out at 16 were whores... Hun, if you're 14 - you (and your hormones) need to just take it easy. Just get yourself a nice website to look at and relax because you are way too young to have so much love drama. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brsingr Posted July 13, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 I am taking it easy, but that can't be said about my hormones. I already elaborated that I do WANT to, but i'm not going to act on it. I dont really have love drama, I have general drama. I like my friends sister, and she likes me (she told me), but her brother knows that I want to and thinks I'll act on it. EDIT: Oh, and not sex at 12, just desperate begging for sex at 12, and @ss-holding at 12. and sex at 14, yes. I must be old then too. Freak. I didn't even like girls until like sixth grade or middle school' date=' and then I was still way too scared to talk to them.[/quote'] Heh, I liked girls in 4th grade. thankfully, I didn't know what sex was at the moment. I know 2nd graders that have had sex, and didn't even know what the hell they were doing. I know, that's sickening, even to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crypticant Posted July 13, 2006 Report Share Posted July 13, 2006 Hon, if our child comes home at 12 years old and even talks about a "getting booty", I will rip said boy's arms off and FedEx them to his parents. You know this, and you married me in spite of it. Brsinger, I have this advice for you. I'm 28, which is probably older than 95% of the people here. I'm married, which probably applies to about 1% of the people here. And I'm happily married, which probably applies to less than 1% of the people here. So, that in mind: 1) You are 14. You will feel sick about this girl, and many others in the future. You will think you want to marry at least 5 other girls as you get older. You will think you and a girl are "soulmates" at least once. Chances are, you're not. 2) Chicks aren't swept off their feet by guys their age, or guys on bikes. If she's 14, she's interested in 18 year olds, or at least 16 year olds with cars. If she dates you, it's only because you're the only option on the table at that given time. No offense, that's just how it is. 3) Before you consider marrying anyone, do the following: a) Take a cold shower Live with them for not less than 1 year. I'm a firm advocate of the "try before you buy" principle. If you can't live together in harmony for a year, there is no way in hell you will stay married. c) Buy the most expensive ring you can possibly afford. Even if your girl is not superficial, it will give you some time to save up, consider what you're doing, and prove to yourself that you really want this. It doesn't have to be fancy, just the best you can afford. I saved for 6 months. The effort it takes to do this will reflect how you really feel to your prospective wife. d) Never, ever, ever think that a long distance relationship is serious. They aren't, and we've all had them. I challenge anyone on this board who is married to disagree. If you're not in the same room making decisions together, it's a flight of fancy. Relationships are about communication, and not over copper wires. e) Get used to not having much money. Women are expensive, whether they admit they are or not. They just are. It's genetic. Get used to it. It's science, so get comfortable with it. This is not up for debate. f) Finally, find out what your friends think. This is important, believe it or not. Most of the time, guys have friends they've been buddies with for many, many years, and they will know you better than your prospective wife. However, this comes with caveats: i) If your friend thinks she's "a whore", it means he wants to sleep with her. Disregard this. ii) If you friend thinks "she's seems really cool", it's all good. This is the answer you're looking for. iii) Anything else, you should take at face value. 4) Women hate whiny, non-self confident guys. So you're a poet. An artist. You're an emotional being. Fine. Do that on your own time. You'll find that most poets are (were) single and depressed, which is why they're good at poetry. You know that ******* jock who gets all the chicks in your school? You want to know why? Because he is confident and strong, and women flock to that. You know how that tough guy who is a jerk to underclassmen has a hot girl? Same reason. Confidence. You don't have to be a prick. You just have to be confident. Hopefully this helps. I'm not spinning any crap here, these are all things you will find out, so hopefully this will help give you a little bit of a roadmap. I think you'll find that my wife will agree with my points (except maybe the "expensive" part, but like I said, no woman will admit that). Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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