crackwilly21 Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Alright, this chick has been an outright bitch to me, for the longest time. We used to date, and all that stuff, and we're still kinda friends, but she has just been really rude, and lied and all kindsa stuff. She called me at work today, and said that her apartment was broken into. She wanted me to come and stay with her. I don't think I should, because she's done alot of bad stuff to me, but at the same time, I feel sorry for her, cause she's on her own, and all of her things were stolen. Any input? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chromatic Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 If you do, just don't get re-attached. She's just using you for a sense of security. Good things can come for both sides in this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fear, the Angel's Name Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Be a good friend to her, more than she has been to you, and set the example. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elfdude Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 get her naked then kick her out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Streetfighter Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 It sounds to me from what you've said, she been around you for quite some time, and the good side is when she is weak, and scared, she thinks of you for safety. Which is good, but in the same time, its also the bad side. She might feel that you will always be there no matter what even if she is just using it to get your "Safety Comfort". reguardless of what it does to your relationship friends h ip, etc. etc. so tred carefully. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dizz Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Get her to call her girlfriends and encourage her to spend the night with them. Otherwise, bring a buddy and sleep on her COUCH. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acerbity Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 get her naked then kick her out LOL That's just too mean. Especially if love was once involved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goomf Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Listen to Dizz. She's a chick. She knows how those wierdos operate. Whatever you do, don't do anything that shows that you're really interested in her. That is, unless you are. Couch is a good idea. But since her stuff was stolen, just sleep on the floor. And no, the floor is not another word for her name. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WarriorCleric Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Do what your gut tells you. I, being super ******* and having a really large problem with people who lie to me, would not have been the person she called so anything else I recommend would be surely along the lines of telling her to piss off and giving her the exact reasons why, and tossing all the nasty little things she'd said, verbatim, back in her face when she asks why you don't care. Some people will tell you to be the bigger person, and sure, if that works for you, but if you can't, there's really no shame in telling her that it's supposed to be a two way street and she burnt her bridges if she has in your books. WC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crackwilly21 Posted November 13, 2006 Author Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Thanks for the advice guys, and gals. I really appreciate it. I do think the couch idea is good, and I plan on letting her know what the deal is. Kinda like WC said, but not as mean (though I should be...). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HBwillie Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 I say go. Protect her. Comfort her. Carress her. Take her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crackwilly21 Posted November 13, 2006 Author Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 I say go. Protect her. Comfort her. Carress her. Take her. eheh...thats what I'd usually do...I don't think I should this time...well, atleast the last one. And maybe the one before that. Only time will tell..hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
inscribed Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 If she's asking you to come over for the night, then you're going to be getting laid. No reason to pass it up, unless you've got someone better now and you're worried this will complicate it. Don't be talked into doing her any favors or helping her out though. She was a bitch to you before, as you admitted, so any change in behavior is just an act on her part to get something out of you. Don't fall for it. Go in, take care of any business, and leave. I would personally leave immediately after, but if you do end up staying the entire night, leave early in the morning, don't stick around. Otherwise, don't head over at all. Just my opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deykari Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 It just depends on what you want from her in my opinion. If you care for her at all, either in the dating sense or just as a friend, go around and just be there for her. But make sure you get things straightened up between the two of you as to why she lied/started being rude. Don't bring it up on the night, she's probably upset as to her place getting broken into, but like I said, if you care for her and want some sort of relationship, be it friendship or other, you need to level with each other. If you don't care for her anymore, then in either polite or harsh terms, I would simply tell her that and have a friend of hers visit her instead. I wouldn't go for the cheap lay routel like inscribed says, for even though sex is good, I don't agree with abusing any sort of position for it without a mutual understanding. Like WC, I wouldn't be happy if someone lied to me, and I'd probably tell her to shove it (except in not-as-nice language). But I'd still find out why she did it though, incase there happened to be some valid reason behind it though. Oh, and I know it's probably all over and done with by now, but I just felt the need to post. Dey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Forsaken Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 If she's asking you to come over for the night, then you're going to be getting laid. No reason to pass it up, unless you've got someone better now and you're worried this will complicate it. Don't be talked into doing her any favors or helping her out though. She was a bitch to you before, as you admitted, so any change in behavior is just an act on her part to get something out of you. Don't fall for it. Go in, take care of any business, and leave. I would personally leave immediately after, but if you do end up staying the entire night, leave early in the morning, don't stick around. Otherwise, don't head over at all. Just my opinion. And you are why men are labled idiots. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigMac Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 ahahaha cw is my brother and i know which bitch he's talking about. I hate her. If a doctor told her she had a month to live, I'd learn to dance and video tape it so I could show her a montage of my dancing skills progressing right before she died, so she'd know I'd dance like a pro on her grave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fiere Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Bahaha! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crackwilly21 Posted November 13, 2006 Author Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Yeah, my brother hates her, and I pretty much do too now. What a b.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Streetfighter Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 ROFLMAO! My new fav. post. BigMac. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goomf Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 She hot? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigMac Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 She's about a negative schfifty five on the 1-10 scale. The sad thing is, when he started dating her, she wasn't half bad. Hell, I would've rated her at a 5 or 6 (and I have pretty high standards) about 4 years ago. She's let herself go. Badly. And it shows. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goomf Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 Anorexic or pudgy? Pimples? Self mutilation? On second thought, I don't want to know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elfdude Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 See I told you to get her naked and kick her out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dragonforger17 Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 dont do it i had the same problem shell just continue to backstab you is all i got to say sorry probaly stereotyping anyways ttyl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
corpsestomp Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 She's about a negative schfifty five on the 1-10 scale. She has been with too many guys? hahaha, I love those videos. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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