EyeSeeU Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 hahahahaha.... that was golden.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HBwillie Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 i saw that coming. a week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elfdude Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 Dating advice on a mud forum, i've seen everything now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fiere Posted May 20, 2007 Author Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 The funny thing is, I didn't even ask for dating advice at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elfdude Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 haha yea they just thought you need it oh snap Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iyorvin Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 i saw that coming. a week. Yeah, you say the same thing after a year, and I'll maybe give you credit. A week and the girl is just thinking it's still cute. Sorry bro, I hope the best for you because you're a fellow mudder, but the reality of it just sucks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HBwillie Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 i do make it a point to compliment my girl at least once a day. at least i have in all past relationships. it makes ME feel good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deykari Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 I simply follow the 3 F's with people who also follow the 3 F's. Nah, in all seriousness, I agree a lot with what a-g said, but a fair bit with what Iyorvin says too. It's down to the individual person at the end of the day, but generally speaking, it seems almost some sort of... natural thing that a lot of women aren't attracted to the stereotypical 'nice guy' type. My view on the stereotypical 'nice guy', is that he type of guy who will be overaccomodating and 'nice' for the purpose of wanting the girl to think he's a great man and all for her. By being 'that guy' he's compromising on his own personality to accomodate what he believes, are the needs of the woman. That is a sign of weakness, or a sign of a lack of belief/confidence in one's own personality, in my eyes. And generally speaking, that guy is the guy who finishes last. For example, complimenting for the sake of complimenting. A compliment, IMO, should only be given if you genuinely mean it. But nice guys don't finish last. People who are naturally kind, respectful, and generous, because it's part of who they are, aren't putting on the "false nice front" and it potentially allows the rest of their personality to show through, whether they have a good sense of humour, they're interesting, they're spontaneous, and so on, and that's what will attract people, depending on their individual preferences. In short, you can't say that being a nice guy means you'll fail with girls, and you need to be Johnny Badass to get girls - that's false, and there are plenty of real-life instances that shows that to be false. It's all down to the individual male/men, and the individual female/women involved. That's just my own view, I'm no psychologist, or expert on women and dating. Dey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aulian Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 Yeah' date=' you say the same thing after a year, and I'll maybe give you credit. A week and the girl is just thinking it's still cute. Sorry bro, I hope the best for you because you're a fellow mudder, but the reality of it just sucks.[/quote'] Ah... I compliment my girl every time I see her.... We are just about to hit a year.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Imoutgoodbye Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 Yeah' date=' you say the same thing after a year, and I'll maybe give you credit. A week and the girl is just thinking it's still cute. Sorry bro, I hope the best for you because you're a fellow mudder, but the reality of it just sucks.[/quote'] I'm still waitin' on my credit. Two years and one of those engaged. HAND IT OVER! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iyorvin Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 I'm still waitin' on my credit. Two years and one of those engaged. HAND IT OVER! Not to be a thorn in your *** but "one of those engaged." Care to elaborate on what went wrong. Honestly? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a-guitarist Posted May 20, 2007 Report Share Posted May 20, 2007 Over a year, and I complement her often, at least three times a day. If I don't, she does get a little "blah". a-g Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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