That proves absolutely nothing - for all you know, Grum had other commands spammed in that did not give an echo (such as, oh, failed flees).
Saddled atop the Goliath, you charge Grizmaw at full speed!
Grizmaw yells 'Help! Maerothir just charged into me!'
Your charge attack *** DEMOLISHES *** Grizmaw!
Grizmaw dodges your attack.
A composite bow's arrows miss you.
Grizmaw's beating mauls you.
Grizmaw's slice decimates you!
You block Grizmaw's attack with your weapon.
You dodge Grizmaw's attack.
You parry a large wyvern's attack.
You dodge a large wyvern's attack.
You block a large spotted leopard's attack with your weapon.
You dodge a large spotted leopard's attack.
You parry a large spotted leopard's attack.
You dodge a large spotted leopard's attack.
You parry a large spotted leopard's attack.
You block a large spotted leopard's attack with your weapon.
You parry a large spotted leopard's attack.
A large spotted leopard's claw injures you.
You block a large spotted leopard's attack with your weapon.
You block a large wyvern's attack with your weapon.
You dodge a large wyvern's attack.
You block a large wyvern's attack with your weapon.
Grizmaw has some small wounds and bruises.
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flame
Grizmaw dodges your attack.
A composite bow's arrows miss you.
You dodge Grizmaw's attack.
You dodge Grizmaw's attack.
Grizmaw's slice devastates you!
You dodge Grizmaw's attack.
You are shocked by the lightning from the Flail of Doom with a Doom rock in it
Grizmaw's shocking bite hits you.
You parry a large spotted leopard's attack.
You parry a large spotted leopard's attack.
You dodge a large spotted leopard's attack.
You parry a large wyvern's attack.
You parry a large wyvern's attack.
You dodge a large wyvern's attack.
Grizmaw has some small wounds and bruises.
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Grizmaw has retreated!
Grizmaw flies east.
You block a large spotted leopard's attack with your weapon.
You parry a large spotted leopard's attack.
You dodge a large spotted leopard's attack.
You block a large spotted leopard's attack with your weapon.
You dodge a large spotted leopard's attack.
A large wyvern's poisoned bite hits you.
You block a large wyvern's attack with your weapon.
A large spotted leopard is in excellent condition.
Two rounds, command goes through before paladin spell cast.
Saddled atop the Goliath, Ilendriel charges you at full speed!
You yell 'Help! Ilendriel just charged into me!'
Ilendriel's charge attack DISMEMBERS you!
You sure are BLEEDING!
Ilendriel has a few scratches.
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The night is about to end.
A blood spot crumbles into dust.
Ilendriel is in excellent condition.
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You dodge Ilendriel's attack.
You dodge Ilendriel's attack.
Ilendriel blocks your attack with his weapon.
Ilendriel parries your attack.
Ilendriel blocks your attack with his weapon.
Something draws life from Ilendriel.
Your life drain scratches Ilendriel.
A spray of blood shoots forth from Ilendriel's wound!
Ilendriel has a few scratches.
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rage
Your blood loss scratches Ilendriel.
Ilendriel's life drain decimates you!
You sure are BLEEDING!
Ilendriel's life drain maims you!
You sure are BLEEDING!
Ilendriel dodges your attack.
Your slice mauls Ilendriel.
Your slice wounds Ilendriel.
Ilendriel blocks your attack with his weapon.
Ilendriel has a few scratches.
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A giant mercenary walks north.
Ilendriel has a few scratches.
100/MAXHP 339/MAXMN MAXMV/MAXMV 70339etl>55532gold (D)ounted> Ilendriel is briefly surrounded by a holy aura.
You slam into Ilendriel, knocking him senseless!
Your bodyslam MUTILATES Ilendriel!
Ilendriel has a few scratches.
Two rounds, command goes through before paladin spell cast.
EDIT: By the way, mino charge has this exact lag also - two rounds, and you'll get a guaranteed command through before the mino does. I have never seen mino or paladin charges lag to anything more or less than exactly that without other modifiers in play.
EDIT 2: Also, this guaranteed command before the mino can do anything is oddly often part of the problem - in that very often people will go for the flee, which will leave them slightly lagged exactly when the minotaur is capable of moving after them and charging again.