For a pure melee I like to go with a mix of hit/dam and Saves. This is also assuming you are level 50 (generally for lower levels once I hit 30ish, I will grab a few things to replace the stuff from Kashangal but I try and not worry about any of the bigger ticket/harder to get items because it will be so much easier to grab once you are 50.
So it generally will look like this: (leftmost is non-rare, moving right to what I would ideally like to get)
PURE MELEE:
Light: Lantern from the dark knight near the Nexus Fortress, Banner from Rralardia
Rings: Copper from the hamlet, Fingerbone from Sai-Lam in Monestary/Dragonscale from Faction of Blood
Neck: Neckguards from Arena with Topaz's from the Volcano, Moonstone Pendant/Cloak of Moving Shadows/Reaver Necklace (Basically the selection here is based upon what is available and what is lacking, meaning if I am playing a Giant race and need aff saves, Moonstone pendant)
Head: Waterproof Barrel from Dwindle/Combat Helmet from arena/helmet from Goblin Lieutenant, Double Plated Helm/Horns of Cthulu from Drstam, Ranger Lord's Stetson/Captain's Helmet/Crown of Might/Crown of Lunar Trinity(if need saves and good)
Torso: T-Shirt of Rheydin, Titanium Fullplate/Ice Armor/Fullplate of Twin Sabres/Adeptus
Arms: Decorated Arm Bands/Slimy Arm Bands from Mudmonster, Silken Sleeves from the thief in Maelbrim/Poison Barbed Gauntlets/Satanic Sleeves/Bracer of Serpents with Black Sapphire
Hands: Spiked Gauntlets from King in Dragon Tower, Cleaning Gloves from Jessica in Labyrinth/Spiked Light-Steel Gauntlets/Flaming Gauntlets (if good), Titanium Powerfists from Adeptus
Legs: Double Plated Leggings, Tentacle Leg Plates/Stained Loincloth, Adeptus Legs
Feet: Jagged Edged Boots from Centaurs/Shiny boots from Caverns, Void Leggings/Spiked Light-Steel Boots/Burnished Steel Boots
Body: Dusty Cloak, Minor/Major Globe/Scourge or Scarlet cloak from Volcano, Cloak of Righteousness/Nimbus of Power
Wrists: Titanium Bracers/Cufflinks, Marked Bracers/Glass Bracers/Steel Cuffed Bracers/Coral Bracers,Heirloom of Vargo
Face: Violet Veil from Hamlet, Alignment Veil from High Tower, Adeptus Face/Mask of Despair
Floating: Wheel from Monastery/Floating Black Orb, Ensnaring Orb/Cabal Item/Ranged Weapon
PURE MAGE:
I tend to not worry about high AC and just go for +HP gear and saves
Light: Magic Sparkler/Illuminated Disc, ClockTower Spike/Ethereal Radiance
Rings: Ornate Copper/Mind Ring from Agent, Platinum Ring from Overseer/Crustacean Ring from keeper of crabs, Polished Marble ring from Iggilwiv/Ring of Moral Ambiguity
Neck: Iconic Amulet, Moonstone Pendent/Cloak of Moving Shadows(its ability to mask your spell time can be useful)/Winterwolf Cloak
Head: Double Plated Helm/Horns of Cthulu, Scalp of the Gigantic Squid/Blazing Halo from Monastery
Torso: T-Shirt, White Lab Coat/Ice Armor
Arms: SilkSteel Harness/Poison Barbed Gauntlets/Satanic Sleeves
Hands: black silk evening gloves
Legs: Crabshell Leggings/silk pantaloons
Feet: Shiny Boots from Justicier, Boots of Protection, Slimy Boots/Void Leggings
Body: Dusty Cloak, Minor/Major Globe/Scarlet cloak from Volcano (if not evil), Cloak of Righteousness/Nimbus of Power/Wizard Shroud from Centaurs
Wrists: Blue Bracer from Blue Sergeant, Glass Bracelets, Bracelet of Magic
Face: Violet Veil, Dragonbone Mask/Hakaeshar's Eyes/SoulReaver's Fangs(maybe it is a mask now?)
Floating: floating black orb, Animated blue orb/Warped Skull, orb of ensnarement