Welcome to FL.
As mentioned earlier, questions like this should be brought to the prayer forum for we IMMs to deal with so you aren't needlessly slandering another character, nor revealing your own (as that's a no-no).
You've also been given some good advice from other players and an IMM or two in this thread. Use it. I'm locking this thread from future posts but it will still be readable to you. I am also editing the original post as it's something that shouldn't have been put out in the open as it was.
Again, welcome. And prayer forum is your friend.